Goodbye Petroleum Jelly, Hello CoCoMe

Petroleum Jelly | You Me NYCDitch the Petroleum Jelly, an oil-based product that was first discovered on some of the earliest oil rigs, in the mid to late 1800s. Petroleum jelly now uses more friendly names like Mineral oil, Petrolatum, or Paroleine. It is found in over 95% of all makeups, soaps, and hair care products.  We all know of the many products that contain Petroleum Jelly.   People have been applying it on their lips, face, hair and on their cuts for years. Short term relief, is the temporary comfort, however, over time, the effects can be quite damaging. It creates a false facade of hydrated skin and actually suffocates your pores by building a barrier between your skin and the very air you breathe.

CoCoMe is an eco-friendly skincare brand derived from all-natural ingredients wrapped in a package of organic virgin coconut oil and a touch of bees-wax.  It caters to your skin by nourishing each layer with a healthy and refreshing covering, all while protecting your skin from the free radicals that can damage it.  The bees-wax allows the application to glide easily and evenly as the organic virgin coconut oil is absorbed quickly into your skin.  The unique properties of CoCoMe leave your skin soft and hydrated as well as repair and restore exuberance to those tired and dry areas.  Blemishes and scars are less noticeable after incorporating CoCoMe into your skincare regimen.

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The product also has anti-fungal, antibacterial, anti-itching, and anti-inflammatory properties and a whole lot more.  No more annoying mosquito bites, Eczema, and athlete’s foot.  After removing makeup, with traditional cleansers, there are still a lot of chemical remnants left on your face from both the makeup and these traditional cleansers, which can cause breakouts and irritation.   Used as a makeup remover, CoCoMe cleanses a majority of those chemical remains away with its all-natural ingredients preventing breakouts and irritation from occurring.

CoCoMe is a universal product for both men and women.  Now we all know that women are more inclined to take care of their skin and men kinda have skincare on the backburner.   However, both men and women can agree on one thing, they are both age-conscious and CoCoMe aids in slowing down your skin’s aging process.  It’s safe to use from head to toe, even safe enough for a newborn baby.  This is just a brief synopsis that I put together about this product, there are many more uses and benefits to take advantage of.  I use CoCoMe every day as a lip balm and a moisturizer and I absolutely love it and you will too.

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Barbie’s 60th Anniversary a Universal Figure

Have you ever stepped into Barbie’s Dreamhouse? As we all know, New York City has the best pop up events, with themes that are astonishing to people.  Leaving everyone wondering what events will be next.  Barbie’s 60th anniversary takes no backseat to the other popups appearing throughout the city.  Barbie has been honoring female achievement since 1959. There were many iconic females that were represented by their own Barbie dolls.

Barbie’s 60th anniversary paid tribute to real-life women and the positive roles they portrayed in their existence. Women like Amelia Earhart, Frida Kahlo, Bindi Irwin, Katherine Johnson, Yara Shahidi, Dipa Karmakar and many more. 60 years of female empowerment through a doll, making Barbie a universal figure.

This event wasn’t specifically for kids, many adults attended and participated in the event dressed as Barbie. Each wearing the loud color pink from shoes, dresses, shirts, and accessories. The event showed an overview of Barbie’s career, her fashion and the use of other miniatures to represent the diversity of the female personification today.

Barbie has evolved, coming in all shapes and sizes. It was a day of celebrating the nostalgia of one’s childhood. From entering through her closet, then her bedroom, and eventually her kitchen, made you think you were one of the Barbie Dolls as well. The dream house you’ve always admired on television, at a friend’s house or the one in your bedroom,  has come to life, right before your eyes.

This pop up was to render the last generation of firsts for young women to follow their dreams and creativity. Becoming the first of the first or the last of your generation is most inspiring. Barbie isn’t just a doll; Barbie is the person you’ve always wanted and needed to become when you were younger. She is you. The Barbie doll is a representation of you.  Like Barbie says “You can be Anything” and by the way, I participated too.

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Ride Share

So here I am taking advantage of a semi new ride-share company in New York City.  Not like we don’t have enough ride-shares in the city, however that’s just my opinion.  However, I really like this particular service, it’s like a glorified bus.  We are in one of those six passenger Mercedes vans going up and down the avenues picking up and dropping people off.

It’s Monday morning and of course the mood of the passengers is “shitty”.  No one wants to talk, they just want to get to their destination and start another miserable day at a job they don’t particularly like.  What I find comical are the passengers that feel this service is specifically and only for them.  You know whom I am talking about.  I classify them as the “Entitled Ones”.  The ride is never complete unless one of them gets on and huffs and puffs because we make a stop to pick up or drop off before their destination.

As we are making a stop, no one wants to move for her.  This is why I sit in the back so I don’t have to move.  Anyway, no one wants to move.  The passenger sitting closest to the door had the nerve to ask her to go around.  I said to myself, “You have to be kidding me, yeah, let’s have her go around into on-coming traffic because no one wants to move over one seat”.  Before I could say anything the young lady said it herself “How bout you move over so I can get in and we stop delaying everyone’s commute, it’s not like your ass is made of gold”?

Coming from a true New Yorker right there and I love it.  Everyone shifted a seat and she got on.  As she sat down she looked at everyone and said “That wasn’t so hard was it” and my response “No not at all sometimes people and asses are one of the same” as I looked directly over at the jerk who asked her to go around.

 

 

High-Rises to High-Fashion

Exceptional physical condition, extreme weather tolerance and the ability to lift a significant amount of weight, is just the tip of the iceberg, regarding what it takes to be an Ornamental Iron Worker.  Now, couple that with beauty, grace, elegance and high-fashion, the end result is “True New Yorker” Porcha Gordon.

Originally from Houston, Texas, currently living in the Bronx, Porcha is an Ornamental Ironworker going on eight years, with an additional career in the industry of high-fashion modeling as well.  According to Porcha, the uniqueness of her profession and the impeccable views, are what she loves the most about being an Ornamental Ironworker.  What she loves the most about being a model, is being able to dress up and showcase beautiful designs.

One of the challenges of this dual career, was the constant transformation from Ornamental Ironworker to model.  Gordon remembers when she first started to model, she was not graceful at all.  Her walk made people cringe.  She had to learn how to walk all over again.  Balancing both professions takes a lot of physical energy out of her, especially, when a show runs late and she gets very little sleep for work the next day.  Additionally, she tends to get nicks, cuts and bruises, which can be impose an issue in front of the camera.

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When asked if she faced any animosity in such a male dominated industry, Porcha replied, “Not really but occasionally, I get a guy who thinks that he can bully me because I’m a girl”.  According to Porcha, due to her size and her looks, she would get a few interesting stares when seen in her hard-hat and construction gear when she first started. Now, those stares have turned in to admiration and people being impressed.

One of her most interesting experiences in her daytime profession, was working on the new Tappan Zee Bridge and in the world of modeling, discovering a whole new universe and being a part of it, which is the opportunity of a lifetime.  However,  where there is interesting there is also embarrassment.  Porcha recalls, a time when she was working over someone not realizing there was a can of “Redbull” in her back pocket.  Somehow she crushed the can and it got all over her and her construction pants.  She had to continue the rest of the day working in her leggings.  Another awkward moment for Porcha was when she was modeling.  She was wearing patterned “granny panties” which happened to faintly show through her outfit.

Porcha’s busy schedule between careers does actually allow for some downtime.  During the few moments she does have for herself, Porcha cherishes the time she spends with her friends, as well as playing in all things makeup.  She also likes to participate in beauty classes and catch up on sleep, which according to Gordon, sleep is boring but it’s the best thing ever.

Once finished with her journey of self discovery, Porcha eventually wants to travel the world with her best friend.  For now she will continue to maintain two careers and continue the path she has been following which makes her great grandmother proud.  Although her great grandmother is no longer with us, she is still Porcha’s greatest influence in life.